The beauty of black women is something we can’t emphasize enough, and if you feel the butterflies going crazy inside your gut when you have that cute black girl around, there’s no reason not to try and win her over.
However, there are certain things you need to be aware of, and there are certain unwritten rules you simply need to obey, if you want your relationship to work.
Keep An Open Mind About Racial And Cultural Differences
The matter of race will come up in your relationship, but try to restrain yourself from saying things like “You are very intelligent for a black woman” or “You’re not like other black woman”.
Although this might seem as a compliment to you, what your girl will actually be hearing is: “All black people are stupid, but you are an exception”.
When you compliment your girl this way, you are actually putting her race down, and she won’t like that, at all.
How would you feel if she said you’re pretty masculine for a white guy?
Accept Your Girl As An Individual
Some people assume that everyone from a certain race acts, lives and behaves the same way. This is never the case.
Don’t expect your black girl to be the absolute authority of all black people. Don’t ask her things like “Why do black people do this or that?”
Do you really expect this one girl to know all about each black person in the world?
Black people, like all people, have various interests, backgrounds and obstacles they face on daily basis. The one thing they all have in common is constantly being labeled as a part of a group instead of being an individual.
And they don’t like it.
Don’t Fetishize Your Girl
A black girl is not to be bragged about like a trophy. You can’t expect your girl to be loud, angry, or promiscuous, just because she is black. If you expect these things, you better stay away from this girl and spare her time. If you think a black woman is more exotic, mysterious and elusive than a white woman, you are already fetishizing her, and that’s not a way to start a relationship with someone.
You should look at your black girl just as you would if the two of you were the same race: she is an individual, and none of those stereotypes you’ve heard about are true.
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