Most of us have done some crazy things in the name of love. Even in the name of just finding love. Truth be told, just as in the cheeziest romantic sitcom, love does, in fact, come when you least expect it. How to lure love into your life? Continue reading and you’ll figure out how easy it actually is.
1. Keep doing your thing.
The best foundation for any sort of a relationship is having common interests. Thus, the best way to meet like-minded people is to keep doing the things you like doing.
Do you like soccer? Join a soccer team. Are you a book warm? Join a book club. Do you care about a charity cause? Get involved. Surround yourself with people who are just as passionate as you are about the things that light your fire. Right there, in that crowd, might be the man of your dreams.
2. Learn to let go
Most of our relationships fail. It’s how it is. If it weren’t so, we’d all be married to our first ever boyfriend/girlfriend. But we aren’t – at least most of us.
You need to learn to accept failure, and more importantly, you need to learn to grow out of it. Let it go. The fact it didn’t work out with most of the men you’ve tried dating doesn’t mean all men are douchebags, nor does it mean you’ll never find the one. You will. But he won’t stick around if you act all bitter and talk trash about men all the time.
3. Be positive.
This might sound like a cliche, but it couldn’t be more right: You have to be positive and open to new people if you want to attract a good man. Would you put up with a grumpy guy who’s never happy about anything, or about a guy that keeps bashing women and love altogether?
Just as you’re looking for someone to bring sunshine into your life, you need to be that other person’s sunshine. Stop being a dark cloud, just stop — and you’ll see a change in the way people treat you (men included) almost instantly.